You don’t need to date a clone of yourself, but you do need to be compatible in areas that are important to you. If you notice a mismatch early on, don’t wait around for them to change — when it comes to values and personality, what you see is what you get.

Early Signs They’re Not “The One” for You
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Kelly Eden | Essayist | Writing Coach

Abby Peeler
1 min readSep 8, 2020

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I agree with this. People generally don't change their beliefs and entire personality for someone, especially someone they don't match up with. If there is not a connection, then you are not obligated to stay in said relationship.

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